Couples Are Ready To Have Kids Or Not, What's The Sign?

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Couples Are Ready To Have Kids Or Not, What's The Sign?

 

Jakarta, Desiring to have a general post-married baby couples experienced couples (couples). But keep in mind, whether or not someone ready to have a baby depends on each person. Well, psychically, can you see signs when someone is ready to have children? Adult clinical psychologist from Three Generations, Sri Juwita Kusumawardhani MPsi., Psychologist says psychic signs ready whether or not someone has a child is certainly not seen directly in the physical person. But can be seen from his behavior. For example, he is willing to make sacrifices for others, and able to take care of themselves and others, said the woman who is familiarly called Wita is currently talking with detikHealth recently. Then, another sign that the concerned loves himself or is trying to love myself own. It is said Wita, if the person still has many issues of the past, this is what can be the root of violence to his son someday. Remember, violence is not only physical, but it can also be done emotionally, verbally, or even in the form of abandonment, stressed the woman who also practices in this UI Applied Psychology Clinic.Read also: Questioning Reasonably Wrong When Women Marry Men Are Far Older , another sign that could indicate a person's readiness to have a child is that he or she is capable of being responsible. This responsibility, said Wita, is not only financially but also behavior. Wita pointed out when someone has a well-established job even rich, but likes drunk it means he can not take responsibility. So also when he was being rude to himself or others, then the concerned can not be responsible. The sign of readiness to have a subsequent child that he is open to learning and change later, the desire to have children far greater than his fear. Also important to remember not necessarily married people who are ready to have children. Because getting married and having children are two different things. Married ideally involves two adults capable of mutual care, mutual responsibility, and tolerate each other. Meanwhile, being a parent means we are required to be the party who care, care for, and protect a weak baby. Not everyone is ready to assume responsibility of that size, Wita said. Read also: Study: Men and Women Married His Heart More Healthy Than a Single (rdn / vit)